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Step by Step Persuasion
Step by Step Persuasion It may very well be that your lover fantasizes about a threesome too, but has been afraid or embarrassed to admit it. Contrary to men, women seldom speak to the point and often beat around the bush before telling you what they actually want. If you want her to talk about her fantasies, you can encourage her by: 1. Listening to her. Magic words for women are "Interesting, please tell me more." Then all you need to do is shut up, listen and learn. 2. Being supportive of her opinions and ideas. If you criticize or invalidate her, she’ll not reveal her private thoughts. 3. Affirming that you consider all her desires to be perfectly normal. Acknowledge her fantasies. 4. Making her more receptive to your fantasy by assuring her that bisexual desires don’t depreciate her value as a lifelong partner. Tell her that diverse fantasies make her more interesting, alluring and captivating as a sexual partner. 5. No pushing her into something that scares her. Allow her to become accustomed to the idea. Let her explore the thoughts with you. Women work out their problems by discussing them; encourage her to talk to you. |
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