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The nine success options that yield the maximum possibilities are: 1. Internet 2. Seminars 3. Clothes Optional Holidays 4. Advertising 5. Seducing Friends 6. Swinger Clubs 7. Single Bars 8. Conventions 9. “Hunting” & Holiday Places
The 9 Success Options to Find Candidates for Your Threesome
1. Internet
The Internet is a great tool to find candidates for your threesome. There are loads of
sites where you can either place ads or answer ads. Most of them require a monthly
membership, but it’s worth it. .
Here are a few tips on how you can start finding candidates on the net and get
immediate response:
Find groups who have similar interests as you. The key words are bisexual rings or
groups. Go to www.msn.com, www.yahoo.com, www.icq.com or www.google.com
and look for groups. An internet group is a community of people who want to share
their same interests and meet like minded people. In my experience people who are
open enough to talk about sexuality are more interested in other forms of openness,
or at least able to hear your desires with respect. So groups, clubs, chat rooms and
internet websites related to sexuality, sexual minorities, group sex and sex education
might be good places to find kindred spirits.
Recently I found a very interesting source of candidates. For a yearly fee, you can
connect with people who have a webcam. This is a great advantage over a chat room.
Chat rooms offer the anonymity of not being able to see the other person so you’ll
frequently bump into individuals who pretend to be something they’re not.
Specifically men like to portray themselves as women for some reason. When I’m
not sure if I’m really chatting with a woman I ask female types of questions that
normally a male wouldn’t be able to answer. On this website that won’t happen
because you’ll actually meet the person through the web cam.
2. Seminars Another place to find candidates are workshops, seminar and gatherings that have to do with human sexuality or intimacy. Tantra retreats or Swinger conventions are good options. These two websites will provide you with plenty of information of what’s happening in the “openly sexual scene.” http://www.lifestyles-convention.com http://www.drsusanblock.com/sexinreview/index.html
3. Clothes Optional Holidays
Another option to find a candidate for a threesome is going on a “clothes optional”
holiday. Naturists are usually open minded individuals, sometimes involved in the
swingers lifestyle. There are a few resorts in the world that cater specifically to
people open for sexual play. The most famous ones are “Hedonism I, II & III” in
Jamaica. In these types of resorts you’ll find like minded people who easily might be
open for a threesome. Below are a couple of websites that provide you with a lot of
information when planning this type of holiday:
http://www.nudetravelguide.com/
http://playcouples-travel.com/
http://www.cat69.com/desires.html
4. Advertising
Advertising for an Aphrodite Trio (MMF) is an option that I don’t recommend, but it
could be a possibility. You can either place an advertisement or reply to one. I
personally don’t feel very comfortable with this method for the Aphrodite Trios.
But if you consider that placing an add is for you; by all means go ahead. A small
comment on this subject: if you decide that answering an ad might be for you, avoid
looking in the column Men looking for Couples. The reason is that these types of
guys might be very experienced in Aphrodite Trio’s and this might be intimidating
for you, especially when it’s your first time. Look instead in the Men looking for
Women column. Here you’ll find obviously less experienced guys that might be
exactly what you’re looking for. However, not all of them might want to join you
and a partner. Anyway, it’s worth a try.
If you decide to place an advertisement yourself, it’s best to play both sides of the
spectrum. Place an advertisement as a single woman or as a couple and when you
find the right guy, make it happen for both of you. Remember, most likely these guys
are looking for sex so they’ll unlikely balk at the idea of a Trio.
5. Seducing Friends
Why not seduce a friend? I’m sure you’ve got some friends that you wouldn’t mind
having a threesome with, right? What’s stopping you from seducing a good friend?
That’s too scary? Well, how about seducing a friend you just met; in other words,
how about seducing a nice stranger?
6. Swinger Clubs
Another possibility is to go to a Swingers Club. Here it shouldn’t be too hard to find
candidates that will be happy to help fulfill your fantasy. My husband and I go to
Swing Clubs all the time. I find it a relaxed and easy way to meet new and
likeminded people. .
7. Singles Bars
Another possibility is for both of you to go to a single’s bar carrying pen and paper
along and if you see someone interesting the woman of the seducing couple should
walk up to him and whisper “I’m with someone tonight, but if you give me your
phone number I’ll call you.” Then she should walk back to her partner while he
watches her. Then the three of you have seen each other and this makes deciding
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